Just over a year ago, a friend told me about a job. I wasn't really looking. I was happy where I was. Not one to dismiss an opportunity, though, I took a look. I liked NYU. I liked their philosophy and I liked the people I talked to there. Even more, I think I liked the adventure. Scary though it was. It's odd now. Looking back. Everyone tells me how brave I was to move across the country. To go somewhere I had never been. To a place where I knew almost no one. I didn't come because I was brave, though. I came because I couldn't not. When the door opened and God answered all my prayers, I knew I had to. It was a chance. An opportunity. I knew it would change me. And it did. And I am happy.
And so I left the beautiful, star-studded, expansive city of Los Angeles for the vibrant, honest, and exposed city of New York. How different they are. And yet, how the same.
Life is a journey full of options. We plan and strategize, trying to achieve our goals by mapping out the best route. But alternative paths will always appear along the road we travel. Sometimes we take these paths willingly, because they look fun & exciting or hold promises of great things ahead. Sometimes we take these paths out of necessity. Because the road we chose for ourselves suddenly becomes blocked, difficult to navigate and the only option is to go around. Sometimes these paths bring us back to the road we were on; sometimes we find ourselves off toward a completely new destination. If we ignore the detours, what will we miss? If we always look straight ahead at the road we’ve mapped out before us, will we see the majestic mountains rising up on the horizon or the friend around the bend? We will never know if we do not explore. Maybe it is safer to stay on the main road. But what adventures might we miss? What opportunities might pass us by? A detour may be the long way around, but may be the long way is the way we should have been going all along. Wherever life takes you; whatever road you are on; Make the most of every step and enjoy the scenery on the detours ahead.